I have been in this long distance relationship for almost two years now. we can meet only once in 3-4 months for a week. my boyfriend is a really great and caring guy and he loves me a lot and i love him too. but of late we have been having this difference in taste. he is asking me to get a complete makeover and im not ok with it. i told him that this is my style and this is who i am and he left the topic. but ive seen him looking at the kind of girl he wanted me to look like. i know he loves me but i cant say the same about my appearance though. im a girl with this kind of style
http://img.xcitefun.net/users/2011/05/24鈥?/a>
he is asking me to be lyk this
http://www.extramirchi.com/gallery/album鈥?/a>
(i luk nothing lyk the actress though. it was just for illustrative purposes)
there r many guys who find me very attractive and who have shown interest in me so when he does this it really hurts me. when i ask him why he is doing this to me he is saying he wants me to look my best. im not ok with that kind of style as im from a conservative background. i really like dressing up like how i am right now. when i send him my pics (we dont get to meet often) once in a while like those taken in functions partys etc he is always finding something wrong with my appearance. he says good stuff also but when he says that my earing is bad or if my chain is very old fashioned it hurts me a lot. once i got a pair of earings i thought he would like (he likes really small ones) an took pics of myself in that and sent him and he didnt say anything about it :(. i feel really bad. and the kind of girls he calls hot are bad looking ones to me. the other day i got a chain i really liked and when i showed him a pic of me in it he says its very bad :( al my friends asked me where i had got it from but my bf is saying bad about it..
everytime something lyk this happens it upsets me so much :( i dunno how to handle this anymore.. i mean there are many people who find me very attractive, many guys make passes at me, and here he is not aprreciating me :(What should i do? Am i too immature?
First off, long distance relationships are HARD... And Secondly, if he doesnt take you for who you are then you need to kick em to the crub and find you someone who like/loves you just the way you are. You shouldnt change for anyone. If my husband dare ask me to change my everyday look, i would tell him if he doesnt like the way i look and dress, then he can go and find him someone whom he does like. I refuse to change for anyone and in your case, he's not even there. You worry to much about what he thinks. BE YOURSELF and if he dont like it, then forgot about em! :)What should i do? Am i too immature?
well you can look like that in the bedroom. personally, the make over girl looks fastWhat should i do? Am i too immature?
Clearly he doesn't respect you for who YOU are. He wants you to be someone else. Plus, I don't trust anyone that is overly concerned with looks. He sounds like a tool that wants a pretty girl to call his own (property) rather than someone to love.
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